Hey friends. My boyfriend and I just split up after almost 3 years. It was a mutual decision because he wants to move to Alberta and I don't (I'm from Ontario), but now that it's over, all I can think is that he's worth it. He's worth uprooting my life.

But right now he wants to get out of this city so bad that he wants to move 30 minutes out of town. I can't do that. Leaving the province is one thing, but moving to an isolated village is too hard. I'd have to quit the only job I've ever loved and I'd never see my friends despite only living 30 minutes away. At least in Alberta I'd be in a city full of people.

I'm just really not dealing well with this break up and I don't know if I'm in the right headspace to make this kind of decision. Moving to Alberta wouldn't happen for several years. I just want to be with him. He's worth it. Help!