Hi all. I'm not looking for a diagnoses as I'm certain I have one or both of the disorders. Buy advice on how to self-help would be greatly appreciated as I recently have begun DBT therapy in a group setting; and I don't want to alarm anyone with my stigmatized plight.

Essentially, I end platonic relationships abruptly for fear that I am inadequate or that I have done something wrong.

With romantic relationships, I seem to attract pwbpd or some other major mental disorder. All have been competent. I tend up split at the moment I realize they don't fit my idyllic version of them. I then slowly withdraw - and typically become besotted and abruptly end the relationship to the dismay of my significant other. I tend to regret my actions and apologize; buy then repeat other disgusting behaviors, as one significant other lamented, to see how far I can go.

I have only worked menial level jobs. But, I am in my late twenties and frankly feel beyond those jobs, which I have done for a decade with no advancements as I too abruptly quit them. I feel as though I could be doing them for the next decade; thus, I figure what's the point.

I am sincerely dissatisfied with my life which is why I'm looking for help, in therapy and here for any suggestions.