Hi all,

I am just looking for some general opinions and feedback. Anything offered it appreciated

My brother is almost 35 years old. He is an elementary school teacher. He is decently successful in his career.

He still lives with our parents. Our mom does everything for him because if she doesn't, he won't do it. Like laundry and making food. He refuses to try to learn to do this basic tasks on his own. Instead of improving with age, it seems to have gotten worse.

He is overly critical to people about things. He asks awkward questions about basic tasks, like "aren't you going to season that?" or "can you show me how to boil water?"

He is very forgetful in regards to the hurtful things he says. He will forget something he said ~5 minutes ago. However, it also happens in debates/discussion.

As a teenager he got several speeding tickets. We thought he learned his lesson as it causes his car insurance to sky rocket. $1000/month. Now 10 years later his lisence got suspended and the province wants him to take driving lessons again.

He has never really had a girlfriend. I think he might even possibly be a virgin. Or gay?

Is he suffering from some sort of memory disorder and social disorder?

TL:dr my bro forgets alot, doesn't learn from his mistakes, can't do basic life tasks, he finds inappropriate things funny(such as someone sincerely thanking him for help), and extremely critical to those around him even if he has never completed the task on his own. He might be a 35 year old virgin or in denial about his sexuality.

Thanks