My gf (19) has been struggling with her mental health and it’s causing problems in our relationship. Her daily/constant use and dependency on weed is becoming too much for me but she says it helps prevent her from self harming and makes her feel better. She wants to get more into drugs because she feels like she won’t live past 25 (because she’ll end her life) which I’m against but that’s not why I’m posting. I don’t want her to suppress everything and avoid it. If a doctor prescribes her weed I would be happy for her to use it but I don’t like the idea of self medicating if something else would actually be helpful if that makes any sense. She doesn’t want to go to a doctor because she doesn’t want to get put on meds (our friends stories of being on meds have made her scared) and she doesn’t want to go to a therapist because she’s embarrassed and feels like they won’t listen. She doesn’t have money or insurance for a therapist and doesn’t want her parents to find out. I’ve warned her I will call the cops if she ever tries to hurt herself but I don’t want to put the financial strain on her/family but I want to help before it gets to that point. I don’t really know what to do or where to even be posting this but any suggestions are appreciated.