I'm in a long-term relationship (FYI: I'm a gay man), with someone I care about a lot. We live together and do everything together, but I've lately been feeling that I've lost my love for him, I've been going through a lot of stress lately, and maybe that has to do with this... I'm scared of committing: to my relationship, to my studies and degree, to my friends, to where I live, to what I make of my life. It's ruining my relationship. I constantly have thoughts second guessing if I truly love my partner, and this is all very recent. I know I want to be with him, and I want to find a way to get rid of all of these questioning thoughts... I am quite young, but this man has been there for me, has never treated me badly. We are currently taking a break because I was hurting him too much by not being able to give him the love and affection he needs. Please don't tell me to just break up with him, I need some advice on how to remove all these second thoughts and focus on the good and positive in my relationship. Thank you in advance.